The world is full of people who can’t sell or don’t want to - often for good reasons. Usually it’s because they don’t want be the sort of person who they think it’s necessary to turn into to sell things.
They may have real examples in mind - obnoxious sales-men or -women they have encountered in their past who bullied, pushed or lied.
However, once you start your own business it becomes necessary to find customers on a regular basis. So you need to put these traumas behind you and find an approach to selling your product or service that both works and that you are completely comfortable with.
Here are some articles by US sales guru Lenann Gardner that suggest ways of finding customers that are different to the practices that have long given selling a bad name.
So don’t let bad sales experiences from your past become negative role models to you - and a barrier to setting up your own independent business. Resolve to do it differently to them - and better.
1. “Selling is not telling”, writes Lenann on the Business Week web site. “Don’t talk so much. Ask questions. Really listen to what this person wants. And then talk only about the aspects of your product that relate to what your prospect desires.”
2. In another article (Your bias against selling is gonna kill your success) she suggests that you “uncover the ways in which you might be helpful to other people, and then make those people aware of the opportunity you represent to them”. It’s then up to them to be “big boys and girls and decide whether they’d like to take advantage of that opportunity.”
3. “Think about your prospective client’s ego”, Lenann recommends on Business Week again. “Damage an ego, and even though you are right, they won’t be buying from you!”
The reluctance to sell we are assuming here doesn’t apply to all people, and it probably depends on what type of salespeople you have been exposed to. But it is something many people express to PRIME, and it can be overcome by developing your own approach that simply avoids practices you are uncomfortable with.
If you have a good product or service it stands to reason that there are people out there who would welcome the opportunity to buy it. It may sometimes be hard work, but you owe it to them as well as your own business to find them and make them an offer they can understand and make their own decision on.
“When selling, one should have a sincere desire to see the buyer get where he wants to go, whether or not it involves buying from you or your firm,” says Lenann. “This attitude transforms the selling and purchasing experience into something much more positive, productive, even pleasant.”